Home vs Public vs Private School

The Never Ending Debate

Not surprisingly, emotions run high when discussing the choice. Advocates will stake out a position and cling to it tenaciously, seeking to find flaws in arguments for alternative choices. This, too, isn't surprising since the different camps typically have radically different starting points or outlooks.

The choice, and the arguments in favor of it, generally revolve around a difference in basic values. They ask: what is regarded as most important in education? Scholastic achievement? Social skills development? Future college or income opportunities?

Naturally, parents will have to weigh any and all of those against cost, parental time investment, legal requirements and other factors.

Schooling Choices

Those who weight one (and several other possible) value(s) more significantly or more heavily than another will tend to align themselves in favor of one choice over the others.

For example, statistics are clear that homeschooling tends to produce young individuals that score better on standardized tests and achieve the college of choice more often. This suggests that homeschooling, whatever other benefits or drawbacks it might have, tends to produce students with higher scholastic skills.

The outcome of emphasis on that value is debatable, but again statistics are influential. Studies show that those with higher grades, and who attend a college of choice, tend to have more career opportunities after graduation and enjoy higher starting salaries.

Others will argue, reasonably enough, that there is more to life than scholastic-style learning and the potential for increased income.

This camp will point to the increased opportunities that public school provides for social interaction. Advocates will say that it does a child long-term harm to 'put them in a bubble' for 10 or more years, then throw them out into the world unprepared.

Public school advocates will also point to the higher costs of private school and the higher time investment (for parents) typically required for homeschooling. Kids, too, often voice their preference in favor of public school, since it allows them to associate more with those whom they already know.

Private school advocates will argue that this choice offers the best of both worlds. At the same time, they argue, prices vary and are often not as high as parents may think. Private schools often have very rigorous curricula and many rank well in studies that measure standardized test results, college entrance success and other factors.

Montessori proponents, for example, can rightly point to a track record several decades long showing students who succeed scholastically, creatively and in other measures. Wise ones will also assert the caveat that Montessori schools can vary widely in quality. Some may bear little more resemblance to another than the sign outside.

There is, of course, no straightforward way to settle such a debate without engaging in a much larger discussion of basic philosophy. Each parent will do well to examine his or her goals for their individual child and research each choice thoroughly.